“It doesn’t matter how great and lavish your frosting is… because that is not what makes you who you are,” explains Lee, regarding her theory. “What makes you who you are, is you—the cupcake without all the decorations and glitz. Be whole. Be solid. Be beautiful. BE YOU!”
Without a doubt I love this quote. And unfortunately, many relationships fail – romantic and unromantic – because once you lick the frosting off, people just can’t accept the person for who they truly are at the core.
Cupcake Theory discusses:
- Embrace who you are & be confident of that person!
- Engaging in healthy relationships,
- Look past the colorful frosting of cupcakes!
- Flaunt your cupcake flavor!
- Repair broken connections and learn new ways to find romance in your life!
Clara Lee’s words are profound. The Cupcake Theory is a quick easy-to-remember guide for anyone needing a pick me up. It’s a great reminder to always love ourselves first and to take care of ourselves before we can build any other relationships.
What a great concept! I can see using the cupcake analogy when explaining friendships or relationships to our kids. It might be something they’d better understand given that many of them don’t get the ‘don’t judge a book by its cover’ saying anymore! 😉
I would never think to mesh the two bust she’s right lol I will check out the book
What an adorable idea. I love to read and found you on the Mommy Blogger Hop. Hope you will stop by and share your book tour post with my Small Victories Sunday linkup! http://momssmallvictories.com/small-victories-sunday-6-the-one-where-karma-goes-bad-and-we-rocked-to-bon-jovi/
What a unique perspective on people and relationships. Frosting can be very deceptive because once you get to the cake of the cupcake there are times the two don’t match up. Thanks so much for sharing and linking up with us at the Mommy Monday Blog Hop!
I like the perspective she has.
Sounds like a great book and of course I love the title.